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Yeah, wow... Totally took a break from this one.
The story goes, I moved. Plain and simple. I'm beginning to get settled in my new home and will continue my posts as I get closer to calling my new place home. |
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Nov. 19th, 2005 @ 10:15 pm
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Ok... I'm not one to normally post these things as I sometimes find them, well, shallow. I'm not judging those that have posted quizzes like this, I just mean that I normally do not.
This one, however, I liked for some reason. Mostly because it made me feel good about myself, and partly because it was quite correct. (At least it is correct as to how I see myself.)
| Your Personality Profile | 
You are elegant, withdrawn, and brilliant.
Your mind is a weapon, able to solve any puzzle.
You are also great at poking holes in arguments and common beliefs.
For you, comfort and calm are very important.
You tend to thrive on your own and shrug off most affection.
You prefer to protect your emotions and stay strong. |
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Wednesday's are usually easy for me... No class, no meetings, and no work. Today, that all changes.
On my to-do list for today:
1. Marketing Case: Off-Brand Product Marketing
2. Marketing Case: Non-Traditional Product Placement
3. Marketing Case: Non-Traditional Advertising
4. Marketing Case: Global Product Distribution
5. Economics: Study for exam tomorrow, 2 chapters
6. Economics: Teach 400 level class, 7pm, 2 cases, one worksheet
7. Investments: Study for exam tomorrow, 4 chapters
8. Investments: Complete peer critique for project
9. Marketing: Finalize outline for project presentation
10. Apply for Job: Microsoft
11. Apply for Job: Boeing
12. Apply for Job: Amazon
13. Find Apartment
14. Finalize short term financial backing
15. Call parents for graduation planning
16. Call hotel to reserve rooms
17. Get to bed at a decent time for above exams in the morning.
What the hell am I doing posting to LJ?
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This entry is quite long, as it includes multiple questions/answers.
Red are the questions, Blue are my answers.
The post begins as follows:
I am bad at oral.
And I realize this takes practice.
And I've read all of the tutorials and tips everyone has given.
So I'm working on it.
(Please don't comment telling me how to give head, I've read everything, and I'm trying)
But until then, I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on how to get him going before I try to go down on him.
I'm generally pretty shy about initiating things, so I really want to wow him by being sort of agressive.
We
usually end up making out during a movie whenever we hang out, so what
are somethings I can do to make him feel really good before we even
start anything?
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The weekend is over, and we now turn over into a new Monday. How was my weekend, you ask? Great! ..but busy. I've had the pleasure of meeting a new friend, getting major financial backing for my next big project, and even managed to complete my lesson plan for tomorrow. Although I'm a student, I teach economics as well. That's some fun stuff right there, and it has nothing to do with sex! Well, that's not true, actually. I bet I could present my class with the economics of sex, and they'd have a hell of a lot more fun than what I'm going to be teaching tomorrow... |
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The following was "A question for the guys," asking how long it took us to learn how to bring a girl to orgasm.
As usual, Red are the questions, Blue are my answers.
This is a question for the guys.
How long did it take for you to learn how to get a girl off? I'm talking years, and also how many girls you went through.
What was the most helpful thing
you learned in order to get a girl off? (I realize answers are going to
be different here- that's why I ask.)
Thanks!
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Nov. 12th, 2005 @ 03:35 pm
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| » Happy Veteran's Day! |
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To all those currently serving overseas and abroad, thank you.
To all those servicemen and women serving at home, thank you.
To all those proud soldiers, and their families, thank you.
To all those serving before my short life began, thank you.
To all those whose blood, sweat, and tears helped another soul during conflict, thank you.
To all those who have fought and died for your country... thank you.
Today, I wear red.
Nov. 11th, 2005 @ 09:41 am
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Well, my first naked close-up was quite the step for me, and I received some positive feedback from it. As I am male, competing for the limited amount of female attention that exists on Live Journal, I didn't really get a *lot* of comments for it. It could be the way the pic was taken, lighting, etc, or that I'm just not appealing. Either way, I wanted some input from some of my readers. Do you want to see more? What would you suggest?
Yeah, yeah, I know I'm insecure, but I'm not going to post another picture like the 'lonely' one below unless you people want to see it! So... Let me know!
Nov. 10th, 2005 @ 06:03 pm
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Recently, a reader of one of my advice pieces told me that directly because of my writing, she had the best sex of her life the other night! I was elated, of course, excited that input that I had given was actually taken to heart and really helped someone with a problem!
Then, I remembered why I was giving this advice in the first place. It wasn't so that I can feel good about what I do, it was to help others feel better about themselves and solve their own problems. All I aspire to do in my writing is present perspectives and possibilities that perhaps the advice-seeker had not previously analyzed.
Well, this reader did just that: she looked at a perspective she hadn't considered before, thought about it, discussed it, and solved her own problem! Indirectly, I made her life better and I suppose this is exactly what made me happy!
Nov. 10th, 2005 @ 05:44 pm
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I don't even know how to begin. About six months ago, I was sitting in a study group outside of class with the girl I sat behind for an entire semester, and a couple others. (The others aren't really important to this story.) Our group was very informal; we were joking around during much of the session. We're flipping through our book, referencing a study guide the professor had given for the class and looking up answers. As part of our joking nature, I said something that was mock-insulting to her, you know, saying it with a smile and a laugh. Her response was a laugh of her own, and a 'fuck you!' (Keep in mind, this is all joking, not really insulting whatsoever.) Being the smart-ass that I am, I said, "Ok! Let's go!" Continuing with the joking around, she said, "Alright, I'm ready!"
( A Selfish Counter-Proposition )
Nov. 10th, 2005 @ 05:12 pm
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| » Cleaning Up the Post! |
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I've recently cleaned up my postings quite a bit. I've noticed that my readers have to scroll around a lot when they want to look at my journal. As a part of this cleaning process, I've put a lot of my quite lengthy advice sections under cuts. This way, if a reader is not interested in a particular set of posts and replies, I'm not forcing them to scroll through all of it. If, however, readers are looking for a detailed piece, they have acess to the first post, and a truncated version of my reply above the cut. The full mention will be located below that cut from now on!
Happy browsing!
Nov. 10th, 2005 @ 11:35 am
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I'm sure that everyone has had a fantasy. I'm sure that everyone realizes where some fantasies end, and where new experiences begin. I'm starting to creep closer and closer to this line myself. Of course I masturbate, and of course I look at porn. Sometimes together, sometimes not. I have a problem with some porn, however... It's static. It's predictable. It's not live. I've discovered that for my sexual fantasies, solo style, I need something more. I've been interested in chatting with some of my readers, and even doing so in a sexual content. I like sharing (use your imagination) but what I really like is the stimulation of a live person on the other end.
I wouldn't ever want to take a sexual aire with someone who was not willing, however, don't get me wrong--I'm not that far perverted! I've just realized that I really like talking to others about sex. I had wondered what some of you readers though about such an idea. I've had a couple people interesetd in chatting, but it didn't ever go anywhere. I just wondered if I'm (ugh!) boring, or if people just aren't interested at the time. I have the information on my profile, but I really haven't had any meaningful conversation. I'd just love to be able to have a live person on the other end that can see/read a sexual content, and share their experience back.
I would refer people back to my 'lonely part' found below.
I don't know... perhaps some commenting will help enlighten me about my plight!
Nov. 9th, 2005 @ 04:57 pm
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The following post is quite long, dealing with drug addiction and sex drive.
As usual, Red are the questions, Blue are my answers.
Hi, I'm new. I'm 18 and a college freshman in Washington state. Enough of that crap, onto the good stuff.
I
have a question that I was hoping someone could help me out with. My
boyfriend is a recovering heroin addict (5+ years of use) and his sex
drive has been severely compromised since he stopped using. I, on the
other hand, I am addicted to sex. Our sex used to be amazing and
spontaneous. He could go for what felt like days, and he is very well
equipped. ;) But now, I have to beg and plead just to get sex for the
two minutes he can last. And after it happens once, it won't happen
again for at least a week!!
I live in a dorm and couldn't
masturbate even if I wanted to, but masturbation has never really been
my "thing" anyway. How can I work with him when he's not willing to
try? And what the heck am I supposed to do in the meantime? I only see
him maybe once or twice a month so any advice you have for me would
help a lot. I love him and I am completely committed to him but this is
killing me!!!
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Nov. 9th, 2005 @ 02:59 pm
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Below is a question/answer session discussing advice on withdrawal and
condoms as birth control methods, as well as other topics.
As usual, Red are the questions, Blue are my answers.
Again, this might sound stupid but I really gotta know...
If a guy inserts his penis into you, but not all the way in and did not
cum...but he came earlier...before he entered into you..could you get
pregnant?
Also, How do you know if he is all the way in you?
Again, keep in mind...I know they must sound like stupid questions but I really gotta know.
Please help.
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Nov. 8th, 2005 @ 03:18 pm
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The following post deals with overcoming shyness with oral sex.
As usual, Red are the questions, Blue are my answers.
Okay, so I recently joined this community and I have a question.
My
boyfriend gets kind of frustrated because I never let him go down on
me. It's not anything against him whatsoever, because I love him with
all of my heart, but I've just never really gotten much out of
receiving oral sex. I don't know if I should just let him go down on
me, and just see if I like it or not? I would just kind of feel really
bad if he did and my opinion still hadn't changed. And why is it that I
don't really get anything out of receiving oral? I mean, I love giving
oral and I love sex; but when it comes to receiving I'm just NOT THAT
INTO IT.
Any advice would be highly appreciated.
Thanks.
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Nov. 8th, 2005 @ 03:09 pm
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| » Let the Nakedness Ensue!! |
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Alright, so I've finally decided to turn the camera on myself. I figure I like looking at bodies, so I may as well please others that enjoy doing the same. If you're looking for that post (in another community), you'll have to comment and I'll let you know where it is!
Nov. 7th, 2005 @ 05:46 pm
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The following post concerns asking a boyfriend to shave.
as usual, Red are the questions, Blue are my answers.
Any suggestions for ways to get your boyfriend to clean up down there??
i'm
dating a lovely italian boy... i really don't mind the ass hair. which
he definitely has. but the hair around the balls & the base of his
penis bugs me when i go down on him. what should i say to subtly
suggest it without hurting his feelings? i love him and i really
wouldn't be like, horribly upset if he didn't... but it'd be nice to
get him to. plus, i keep myself all neat! :)
thanks ;)
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This is already a day late, so if this didn't get to you in time, I apologize.
Taking
this from the perspective of your boyfriend, he probably hasn't really
thought about it much. Sometimes, just asking flat out will get you
what you want. You don't really say how sensitive he may be about such
things, however. If he is a sensitive person, and may think that you're
insulting his natural image by asking him to change it, perhaps an
extremely direct approach isn't appropriate. If he is a sensitive
person, you're probably going to have to put up with it a time or two
before he does shave for you. A good way to ask in a situation like
this is to actually compliment him on something else. "I really like
how you feel/taste/touch me/whatever..., but I might enjoy this a
little more if you were smoother down there. If I enjoy it more, I'll
be a little better at making you enjoy it more." Giving him a big ego
stroke, plus incentive, will most likely get you what you're looking
for.
When it comes down to actually making him smooth, there are
several options. First, I should probably state that I am a male, and
so I'll take that perspective. If this is his first time doing this,
he'll most likely want to do it on his own. The first time a girlfriend
of mine asked me to clean it up down there, I wanted to explore that
option by myself. I wasn't ashamed that she didn't like it, I just felt
that I could probably be more efficient at finding the right way to do
it. (on a side note, this was actually opposite of the time I asked my
girlfriend to shave. She didn't know what I wanted, so she asked me to
do it. She enjoyed that so much, that now if we are feeling very
sensual, she'll ask me to shave her again.)
As
for the statement by slow_licker "ball shaving is very easy. Very."
This is not true in the least... Ball shaving, especially the first
time, can be quite difficult. Do not be upset at your boyfriend if he's
not able to get all those little buggers. In order to shave close, you
have to pull skin straight. Just imagine, if you will, a soapy hand, a
soapy sack, and no grip whatsoever. It's quite difficult to pull the
scrotal skin taught in order to take care of that business. If you do
manage to get a grip, its because you've got a *lot* of skin that
you're pulling, or your pinching it quite hard. Underneath all that
skin are the, uh... things you don't want to grip too hard.
Personally,
I use my beard trimmer to take care of the top part, and Nair for Men
(grey bottle) on the underneath. KEEP IN MIND! IT IS A CONTRAINDICATION
TO USE NAIR ON THE GENITAL OR PERIANAL AREA! It really does burn some.
If he's super sensitive to Nair (as some people are) he will not want
to do this, and will want to stick with a new, sharp, multi-bladed
razor. Not to belittle his manhood in any sense, but if he can take
four to ten minutes of slight discomfort, this may work just fine.
One
thing he will probably not want to use: electric shavers on the scrotal
area. First time I did this, the rugae (wrinkles) had several, several
nicks and cuts from the screen blades. I haven't done it since.
I
guess this has gotten quite a bit longer than expected, and somewhat
off track. The suggestion to your main question would just be to inform
him of what you would like. Don't sneak around about it or try to hint
at it. We boys just don't get it sometimes. We really aren't
mind-readers as some of the fairer sex would like to believe. When a
girlfriend wants something, or would prefer something, I would expect
her to
let me know exactly what she wants. If I don't know what it is she
wants, I can't give it to her! ...and I'm always eager to please!
;)
Nov. 4th, 2005 @ 10:07 pm
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| » First Entry: Friend Adds, Messenger Adds, and just foolin' around! |
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Alright folks, its as easy as that! I'm always willing to meet new people. I have a new messenger name up in my profile. If you like to chat about most any subject, I'm up for it! Of course, I have a few favorite topics such as sex, and could talk about that for hours at a time! I'm also up for webcam chats if any of you are into that!
In this journal, I'll try to be giving advice, posting up some naughty pictures, and just facilitate an aire of 'just foolin' around!' This journal, for the most part, will remain public unless there are abuses.
Comment here if you wish to be added to MSN Messenger. I can't add everyone (ok, I probably will!), so please comment with a reason for me to add you. I don't mean that I'll necessarily reject *anyone* but I would like to know why you're interested in talking to me! Also, if there are requests that you have for me, naughty or nice, comment here and I'll see just what I can do!
Last thing:
THIS JOURNAL IS RATED ONLY FOR THOSE OVER 18 YEARS OLD. IF YOU ARE UNDER 18 OR ARE NOT LEGALLY ALLOWED TO VIEW MATERIAL CONSIDERED OFFENSIVE OR PORNOGRAPHIC, YOU ARE OBLIGATED TO EXIT OUT OF THIS JOURNAL IMMEDIATELY.
Oct. 28th, 2005 @ 12:00 am
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